{"id":5746,"date":"2019-02-20T14:04:31","date_gmt":"2019-02-20T13:04:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sboverseas.org\/?p=5746"},"modified":"2019-02-20T14:04:31","modified_gmt":"2019-02-20T13:04:31","slug":"on-saying-goodbye-in-brussels","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sboverseas.org\/fr\/on-saying-goodbye-in-brussels\/","title":{"rendered":"En disant au revoir \u00e0 Bruxelles"},"content":{"rendered":"

Volontaire de longue date de SB Espoir, Zoheb Mashiur partage avec nous son exp\u00e9rience dans l'\u00e9tablissement de relations \u00e0 Bruxelles gr\u00e2ce au programme de volontariat\u00a0:<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n

Bruxelles est une ville \u00e9trange o\u00f9 tout le monde entre et sort. Vous devriez vous habituer \u00e0 dire au revoir \u2013 mais vous ne le faites jamais vraiment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

La nature de notre travail b\u00e9n\u00e9vole \u00e0 SB Espoir est de donner \u00e0 des jeunes qui traversent un processus bureaucratique inconnu loin de chez eux \u2013 des enfants qui ont v\u00e9cu des choses impensables \u2013 des moments de simple connexion humaine. L'id\u00e9e est de leur montrer qu'on tient \u00e0 eux. Cependant, la nature du processus d'asile fait que nous ne les voyons pas longtemps. Dans la mesure o\u00f9 ils sont ici aujourd'hui et repartis demain \u2013 vers une meilleure situation, esp\u00e9rons-le \u2013 ils sont aussi Bruxelois que n'importe quel \u00e9tranger. Alors, il y a un d\u00e9fi : comment, en tant que b\u00e9n\u00e9vole, faire face \u00e0 la prise en charge d'un jeune tout en sachant qu'on ne le reverra peut-\u00eatre pas dans un mois ? C'est une corde raide. Les meilleurs d'entre nous sont chaleureux et sinc\u00e8rement attentionn\u00e9s tout en \u00e9tant conscients des limites de la relation jeune-volontaire. Si nous sommes distants, nous sommes inefficaces. Si nous sommes trop attach\u00e9s, nous nous nuisons \u00e0 nous-m\u00eames, \u00e0 notre organisation et surtout aux enfants. Personnellement, j'ai peur de cette derni\u00e8re possibilit\u00e9 et j'ai tendance \u00e0 \u00eatre plus r\u00e9serv\u00e9 avec les jeunes que je ne devrais l'\u00eatre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Je n'ai qu'un immense respect pour ceux d'entre nous qui d\u00e9montrent exactement ce qu'un b\u00e9n\u00e9vole SB devrait \u00eatre, et le font sans effort. Ils le sont tout simplement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Et c'est dur quand Bruxelles nous les enl\u00e8ve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

J'\u00e9cris ceci en d\u00e9dicace \u00e0 Rupa et Abdullo. Nous leur avons dit au revoir lors d'un d\u00eener le 25 du mois dernier. Je ne d\u00e9taillerai pas ce qui s'est pass\u00e9, sauf que c'\u00e9tait comme de tels adieux devraient \u00eatre - plein d'amis et de coll\u00e8gues, avec de la bonne nourriture et des g\u00e2teaux et des conversations, et la connaissance douce-am\u00e8re que ces deux personnes remarquables sont sur le point de faire des choses fantastiques.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mon attitude semble hyperbolique. Exag\u00e9r\u00e9. Ce n'est pas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rupa est quelqu'un que je connais depuis un certain temps, \u00e9tant camarade de classe \u00e0 mon universit\u00e9 \u2013 maintenant en train de terminer sa th\u00e8se \u00e0 la maison. C'est une petite boule d'\u00e9nergie et de bonheur \u2013 et une formidable cr\u00e9ativit\u00e9, comme je l'ai d\u00e9couvert gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 SB. D\u00e8s le premier jour o\u00f9 nous avons fait du b\u00e9n\u00e9volat ensemble, elle a fait ressortir le meilleur des jeunes et, ensemble, ils ont fait de tr\u00e8s belles choses. Il est difficile de ne pas la manquer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Abdullo, quant \u00e0 lui, \u00e9tait quelqu'un que je regretterai toujours de ne pas avoir mieux connu. Je l'ai toujours trouv\u00e9 un personnage, dans ses v\u00eatements de c\u00e9r\u00e9monie et son beau costume - mais personne ne s'est lanc\u00e9 dans les activit\u00e9s comme il l'a fait. Chaque fois qu'il \u00e9tait dans les parages, les jeunes ne manquaient pas \u00e0 nos activit\u00e9s. Il avait le genre de grande personnalit\u00e9 qui vous pousse \u00e0 vous engager et \u00e0 vous amuser. Il est extr\u00eamement important d'avoir quelqu'un avec cette pr\u00e9sence dans l'\u00e9quipe, car une grande partie de notre travail consiste simplement \u00e0 briser la glace et \u00e0 convaincre les jeunes de participer et d'essayer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Rupa et Abdullo ont tous deux fait ressortir le meilleur des jeunes et ont repr\u00e9sent\u00e9 SB \u00e0 son meilleur. C'est \u00e9trange de savoir qu'ils ne sont plus l\u00e0, tout aussi \u00e9trange que d'aller dans les centres o\u00f9 nous faisons du b\u00e9n\u00e9volat et de ne pas voir les visages familiers. Bruxelles le fait \u2013 pour diverses raisons.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Les gens partent, mais les gens viennent. La premi\u00e8re fois que j'ai fait du b\u00e9n\u00e9volat depuis le d\u00eener d'adieu, c'\u00e9tait samedi dernier. Il y avait de nouveaux visages. Les jeunes h\u00e9sitaient \u00e0 propos de nous et de nos activit\u00e9s. Rupa et Abdullo nous ont manqu\u00e9. Pourtant \u2013 il y avait aussi de nouveaux volontaires.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c7a a march\u00e9. C'\u00e9tait une bonne journ\u00e9e.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L'auteur est b\u00e9n\u00e9vole \u00e0 SB Espoir et \u00e9tudiant en master en migration internationale \u00e0 la Brussels School of International Studies.<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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