{"id":3485,"date":"2018-06-27T16:08:23","date_gmt":"2018-06-27T14:08:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sboverseas.org\/?p=3485"},"modified":"2018-06-27T16:08:23","modified_gmt":"2018-06-27T14:08:23","slug":"the-chiefs-daughter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sboverseas.org\/fr\/the-chiefs-daughter\/","title":{"rendered":"La fille du chef"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\u00c9crit par Kevin Charbel, chef de projet \u00e0 Saida, Liban<\/span><\/span><\/em><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Je la vois encore parfois, marchant dans le d\u00e9dale de couloirs du refuge o\u00f9 elle vit. <\/span><\/span>Nos regards se croiseront pour un bref instant alors qu'elle sourit <\/span><\/span><\/span>nerveusement<\/span><\/span><\/span> avant de baisser son regard et de me d\u00e9passer <\/span><\/span><\/span>silencieusement<\/span><\/span><\/span>. <\/span><\/span>A cet instant <\/span><\/span><\/span>Je me sens<\/span><\/span><\/span> l'envie de lui tendre la main, de lui demander comment elle va et ce qu'elle fait, mais je me retiens toujours, car je sais que toute interaction entre nous comporte un risque pour sa s\u00e9curit\u00e9<\/span><\/span><\/span>. <\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Sara <\/span><\/span>\u00e9tait marri\u00e9<\/span><\/span><\/span> sous la contrainte il y a trois mois, \u00e0 l'\u00e2ge de 14 ans. <\/span><\/span>Depuis quelque temps, elle <\/span><\/span><\/span>ouvertement<\/span><\/span><\/span> a d\u00e9fi\u00e9 son p\u00e8re, le chef de la communaut\u00e9, r\u00e9sistant \u00e0 ses tentatives de la marier \u00e0 un autre adolescent<\/span><\/span><\/span>. Elle voulait rester \u00e0 l'\u00e9cole, continuer \u00e0 apprendre et \u00eatre avec ses amis. <\/span><\/span>Finalement<\/span><\/span><\/span> cependant, son p\u00e8re s'est lass\u00e9 de ses refus, recourant plut\u00f4t \u00e0 la battre pour la soumettre<\/span><\/span><\/span>. Il n'a pas fallu longtemps apr\u00e8s cela pour que Sarah <\/span><\/span>\u00eatre engag\u00e9<\/span><\/span><\/span>. <\/span><\/span>Quand j'ai d\u00e9couvert ce qui s'\u00e9tait pass\u00e9, je me suis assur\u00e9 qu'elle savait que nous pouvions la prot\u00e9ger et que nous d\u00e9fendrions son droit de choisir, mais \u00e0 ce moment-l\u00e0, dans son esprit, la seule chose pire que de se marier avec un \u00e9tranger \u00e9tait de rester vivre avec elle. p\u00e8re<\/span><\/span><\/span>. <\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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L'\u00e9tudiant autrefois dynamique et effront\u00e9 qui frappait \u00e0 la porte de mon bureau <\/span><\/span><\/span>juste<\/span><\/span><\/span> dire bonjour a disparu du jour au lendemain<\/span><\/span><\/span>. <\/span><\/span>Son mariage l'emp\u00eache de poursuivre ses \u00e9tudes car on s'attend d\u00e9sormais \u00e0 ce qu'elle accorde la priorit\u00e9 aux t\u00e2ches domestiques<\/span><\/span><\/span>. <\/span><\/span>Cette jeune fille de 14 ans est sous pression pour apprendre \u00e0 \u00eatre une \u00ab bonne \u00e9pouse \u00bb, ce qui signifie qu'elle doit <\/span><\/span><\/span>rapidement<\/span><\/span><\/span> ma\u00eetriser les comp\u00e9tences n\u00e9cessaires pour garder une maison propre et <\/span><\/span><\/span>satisfaire<\/span><\/span><\/span> l'app\u00e9tit de son mari, ainsi qu'apprendre \u00e0 ne pas broncher quand il fait des avances sexuelles<\/span><\/span><\/span>. <\/span><\/span>Les propres d\u00e9sirs et pens\u00e9es de Sarah n'ont plus d'importance; sa position dans la soci\u00e9t\u00e9 limit\u00e9e par les quatre murs de sa modeste maison, o\u00f9 elle <\/span><\/span><\/span>devrait<\/span><\/span><\/span> rester pendant que son mari est au travail<\/span><\/span><\/span>. <\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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On dit souvent aux enfants mari\u00e9es que plus elles sont dociles et soumises, plus la transition sera facile<\/span><\/span><\/span>. Ce sont elles qui doivent s'adapter, pas leur mari. Ce sont eux qui doivent se sacrifier, qui doivent accepter les \u00e9preuves et qui doivent, <\/span><\/span>tous<\/span><\/span><\/span> devenues tout \u00e0 coup des femmes. <\/span><\/span>L'imagination et l'ent\u00eatement fougueux de Sarah \u00e9taient autrefois des atouts en classe, o\u00f9 ils pouvaient <\/span><\/span><\/span>\u00eatre mis<\/span><\/span><\/span> \u00e0 bon escient<\/span><\/span><\/span>. Maintenant, ces traits sont un risque pour elle ; elle doit perdre cette partie d'elle-m\u00eame si elle veut entrer dans le moule que son p\u00e8re lui a trac\u00e9. <\/span><\/span>Elle n'a pas vraiment le choix en la mati\u00e8re, car si elle devait finir rejet\u00e9e par son mari, elle n'aurait pas la possibilit\u00e9 de recommencer, elle <\/span><\/span><\/span>\u00eatre souill\u00e9<\/span><\/span><\/span>. <\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Ses amis, qui sont encore \u00e0 l'\u00e9cole, me disent que le p\u00e8re de Sarah la menace de plus de violence si elle cherche \u00e0 rester en contact avec l'un des membres de notre personnel<\/span><\/span><\/span>. <\/span><\/span>Si elle <\/span><\/span><\/span>est isol\u00e9<\/span><\/span><\/span> il y a beaucoup moins de risque qu'elle rejette ses conditions et, avec le temps, la combinaison de la solitude et de l'intimidation engourdira Sarah pour qu'elle accepte une r\u00e9alit\u00e9 qu'elle n'aurait autrement jamais choisie pour elle-m\u00eame<\/span><\/span><\/span>.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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SB OverSeas s'efforce de lutter contre le taux croissant de mariages d'enfants dans les camps de r\u00e9fugi\u00e9s au Liban en sensibilisant \u00e0 la situation sur le terrain<\/span><\/span><\/span>. Lire notre dernier rapport<\/span><\/span> ici.<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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