{"id":3084,"date":"2018-04-18T16:13:03","date_gmt":"2018-04-18T14:13:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sboverseas.org\/?p=3084"},"modified":"2018-04-18T16:13:03","modified_gmt":"2018-04-18T14:13:03","slug":"a-better-tomorrow-bukhra-ahla","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sboverseas.org\/fr\/a-better-tomorrow-bukhra-ahla\/","title":{"rendered":"Un avenir meilleur : Bukhra Ahla"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>\u00c9crit par Jade-Leigh Tenwick, responsable des communications et du d\u00e9veloppement chez SB OverSeas<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Lamis est une fille de dix-sept ans. Une jeune fille de dix-sept ans qu&#039;on appelle &quot;la femme divorc\u00e9e&quot;. Pourtant, c&#039;est \u00e0 peine une femme. N\u00e9e un an apr\u00e8s le mill\u00e9naire, elle a pass\u00e9 son enfance en Syrie \u00e0 aller \u00e0 l&#039;\u00e9cole et \u00e0 jouer avec ses amis. Tout a chang\u00e9 en 2012 lorsque la guerre en Syrie a \u00e9clat\u00e9. Sa famille, ainsi que de nombreuses autres familles syriennes, ont fui leur pays alors que le conflit s&#039;intensifiait et elle s&#039;est retrouv\u00e9e \u00e0 onze ans \u00e0 chercher refuge au Liban, un pays o\u00f9 1 personne sur 4 est r\u00e9fugi\u00e9e.<\/p>\n<p>En raison de la dure politique de r\u00e9sidence au Liban,<a href=\"http:\/\/hrwf.eu\/lebanon-a-better-tomorrow-bukhra-ahla\/#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\"><sup>[1]<\/sup><\/a> Lamis et sa famille se d\u00e9pla\u00e7aient souvent d&#039;un endroit \u00e0 l&#039;autre et ce bouleversement constant l&#039;emp\u00eachait d&#039;aller \u00e0 l&#039;\u00e9cole. Avec plus des trois quarts des Syriens au Liban vivant en dessous du seuil de pauvret\u00e9,<a href=\"http:\/\/hrwf.eu\/lebanon-a-better-tomorrow-bukhra-ahla\/#_ftn2\" name=\"_ftnref2\"><sup>[2]<\/sup><\/a>\u00a0 le taux de mariage des enfants a augment\u00e9 car il est consid\u00e9r\u00e9 comme le seul moyen viable de prot\u00e9ger les filles.<\/p>\n<p>La famille de Lamis n&#039;a pas fait exception. Luttant pour assurer la s\u00e9curit\u00e9 et la nourriture de la famille, ils consid\u00e9raient le mariage comme un moyen d&#039;assurer l&#039;avenir de Lamis. Par cons\u00e9quent, lorsqu&#039;un gar\u00e7on de 22 ans du quartier a demand\u00e9 la permission \u00e0 sa famille pour que Lamis soit sa femme, ils ont accept\u00e9, lui disant que ce serait comme un conte de f\u00e9es. N&#039;ayant aucune exp\u00e9rience du mariage ni de ce qu&#039;on attendrait d&#039;elle, elle a accept\u00e9 cet accord.<\/p>\n<p>Peu de temps apr\u00e8s le mariage, des fissures ont commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 appara\u00eetre. Son mari avait des id\u00e9es pr\u00e9con\u00e7ues diff\u00e9rentes sur ce que signifiait \u00eatre mari\u00e9. Ces id\u00e9es pr\u00e9con\u00e7ues n&#039;\u00e9taient pas celles qu&#039;elle pouvait respecter. Lui et sa famille ont commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 la punir pour cela en la battant, parfois jusqu&#039;\u00e0 ce qu&#039;elle saigne. Elle ne pouvait pas comprendre ce qu&#039;elle avait fait de mal et a subi cet abus pendant six mois avant d&#039;obtenir le divorce et de s&#039;enfuir dans sa famille.<\/p>\n<p>Cependant, ses probl\u00e8mes ne se sont pas arr\u00eat\u00e9s l\u00e0. Le divorce dans sa communaut\u00e9, comme dans la plupart des communaut\u00e9s, s&#039;accompagne d&#039;une stigmatisation. Les gens dans la rue l&#039;appelaient la \u00ab femme divorc\u00e9e \u00bb et refusaient de la reconna\u00eetre par son nom. Elle est devenue une paria et sa famille a commenc\u00e9 \u00e0 craindre pour sa s\u00e9curit\u00e9 en l&#039;avertissant de ne pas \u00eatre seule dans la rue.<\/p>\n<p>Nous connaissons cette histoire car Lamis est l&#039;un des \u00e9l\u00e8ves de notre \u00e9cole SB OverSeas. Malgr\u00e9 les difficult\u00e9s \u00e0 venir dans notre \u00e9cole \u00e0 cause du harc\u00e8lement de rue, elle assiste \u00e0 nos cours car elle veut avoir un avenir meilleur. Elle parle ouvertement avec les autres \u00e0 l&#039;\u00e9cole de son exp\u00e9rience et les encourage \u00e0 prendre leur propre d\u00e9cision en leur disant qu&#039;elle souhaite ne pas \u00eatre mari\u00e9e si jeune car elle se sent encha\u00een\u00e9e par la stigmatisation. Elle esp\u00e8re que son message permettra \u00e0 d&#039;autres filles de prendre leur propre d\u00e9cision et de choisir l&#039;\u00e9ducation au lieu du mariage comme moyen de s\u00e9curit\u00e9. Pour elle-m\u00eame, elle esp\u00e8re que l&#039;\u00e9ducation sera la cl\u00e9 pour ouvrir un avenir meilleur et avoir, comme le nom de notre centre, un avenir meilleur : \u00ab Bukhra Ahla \u00bb.<\/p>\n<p><em>Lamis n&#039;est que l&#039;une des nombreuses filles de nos \u00e9coles qui ont \u00e9t\u00e9 touch\u00e9es par le mariage des enfants. SB OverSeas s&#039;efforce de pr\u00e9venir la pratique du mariage des enfants en donnant acc\u00e8s \u00e0 l&#039;\u00e9ducation \u00e0 1 400 enfants r\u00e9fugi\u00e9s au Liban et en autonomisant \u00e9conomiquement les femmes et les filles gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 nos cours professionnels, ainsi que nos cours d&#039;auto-d\u00e9veloppement.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/hrwf.eu\/lebanon-a-better-tomorrow-bukhra-ahla\/#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\">[1]<\/a>Plus de 70% de r\u00e9fugi\u00e9s syriens au Liban n&#039;ont pas de r\u00e9sidence l\u00e9gale : http:\/\/www.unhcr.org\/news\/briefing\/2018\/1\/5a548d174\/survey-finds-syrian-refugees-lebanon-poorer-vulnerable-2017.html<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/hrwf.eu\/lebanon-a-better-tomorrow-bukhra-ahla\/#_ftnref2\" name=\"_ftn2\">[2]<\/a>http:\/\/www.unhcr.org\/news\/briefing\/2018\/1\/5a548d174\/survey-finds-syrian-refugees-lebanon-poorer-vulnerable-2017.html<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Written by Jade-Leigh Tenwick, Communications and Development Officer at SB OverSeas Lamis is a seventeen year old girl. 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